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Sapphic Singles Mixer


  • Spiderhouse Ballroom 2906 Fruth Street Austin, TX, 78705 United States (map)

Austin Sapphic & WLW Singles Night

 A welcoming, hosted night for queer women to meet, flirt, and connect — no awkward small talk, no pressure.

📍 Where: The Ballroom at Spiderhouse, 2906 Fruth St, Austin, TX
🗓 When: Saturday, January 17 · 7pm-12am
🎟 Who: Sapphic / WLW / Queer Women / Non-Binary + Trans Inclusive
👥 Format: Hosted Mixer with Icebreakers (7-10pm), Mingle + Dance (10pm-12am)

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Looking to meet other queer women in Austin — without awkward mingling or pressure?

This Sapphic Singles Mixer is a hosted social night designed to make meeting people feel natural, fun, and low-stress. Whether you’re hoping to flirt, make friends, or simply expand your queer circle, this is a space where connection comes first.

You’ll be guided through playful icebreakers and interactive activities that help conversations flow organically. No standing around wondering who to talk to — we’ve got you.

Come solo or bring a friend. Many attendees do. The vibe is warm, affirming, and intentionally welcoming to all sapphic identities and is 100% trans and non-binary inclusive.

✨ What to Expect

  • Hosted icebreakers so you’re never left hovering

  • Playful group games to spark conversation

  • Time to chat, flirt, and connect at your own pace

  • A mix of romantic + platonic energy

  • No pressure to “perform” or pair off

💛 Coming Solo? You’re Not Alone.

Most people attend our events on their own — and many say that’s what makes it easier.

You’ll be guided into conversations through structured activities, so you never have to walk up to someone cold. Our hosts are there to help set the tone and make sure everyone feels included.

If you’ve ever wanted to go to a queer event but hesitated… this one is built for you.

FAQs

Is this a dating event or just social?
Both. Some people come to flirt, others to make friends. There’s no pressure — just connection.

What ages is this for?
21+ with a mix of ages. Expect millennial + Gen-Z energy.

Is this women-only?
This event centers sapphic, WLW, and queer women's identities. Non-binary and trans folks welcome!

Do I have to participate in everything?
Nope. You can opt in at your comfort level.

What if I’m shy or anxious?
You’ll be guided the whole time. This isn’t a free-for-all bar scene. If you’re still feeling nervous, read this.

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